Today 31-1-2015
I am now realizing that my family is broken ! And all interested to break it ..
What shall I do ? We are the losers ... And because of her father's greedy my son is going to suffer which I don't want to be happen ... I know the pain of being alone without father and mother united .. And the same is going to happen to my son ...
I cannot see what I am typing .. As the tears are blocking the view ..
One of her uncle and some other family members have paid a visit to my house to talk about separation . They are note came to join but to separate .
We don't have any issues between us .. The only issue being she was not allowed to be with me .. I know there were no issues in a family which long more than 2 hrs .. Even if there is .. it is the duty of parents to keep the family secure .. But here her family man is the one .
What is his problem ..
Everything started from this ..
One evening I reached her home after a travel from kochin and she was there to take care her mother .. When I reached I was very much tired due 300km drive . we slept by 9 pm .. We were waken up by door knock of one neighbour .. He battered me that Her mother has expired by early morning at about 3:00 aswathy ran down.
I came down and seen the crowd .. I got angry that why we were not called at time ?
I asked for the doctor who confirmed it .. But the answer was there was no doctor confirmed ... I asked them to take the body to hospital . but I was locked up in the nearby room and they are counseled me not to go for and they don't want the body undergo postmortem ... After achu also req I stopped protesting ..
But my doubts were still remain and now it anchors ...
It is a planned and executed murder because of the below facts ..
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I was woke up only after 3 hours of death as per their talk ...
Doubt :- if it was a normal death I should the first person woken up by him .. Because I am in the next room and am her son in law
He need to secure that I should not take her to hospital ..
Proper time for death news circulation and crowd will reduce my protests.
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Last night when I reached home while I asked about Sudha am as health . Mr. vijayan (my father in law ) replied she is OK and sleeping .. I don't like to woke a sleeping person so thought will see her n morning .. When I peeped she was using concentrator for oxigen .. And in early morning she died .
If he know she was serious .. Why she is not been in a medical attention at hospital .. It secure the doubt that he was waiting for her death .. And he wants it to be done when I am in home ..
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Before 6 months of death I have taken her to NIMS hospital Neyyattinkara .. And that time it was diagnosed excess oxigen content in blood which may cause due increased or excess use of concentrator .. When we spoke with Sudharma Amma about it she uttered that "vijayan , her husband as my father in law , will increase the flow of oxigen concentrator which she used while in night by saying that she may sleep better .
He know that excess flow is danger as directed by her doctor ..
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I was not allowed to take my wife with me after her mother expired ..
After Sudharma s death Mr. Vijayan may try to make everything in his name but the current legal system only allows the transfer of deceased property of a women to her children .. In this case it was only my wife ..
The. He tried to sell the properties .. That time also they are in require of my willingness which they know .. Is not going to be given ..
Accompanied with many other incidents that he purposefully tried the separation and other incidents .. I have a strong doubt .
That NY mother in law is been killed by him...
But still am suffering to be united .. I doesnot tried things to get be complicated because I want my family and my wife .. As I lobed her most ..
After losing her I became unstable and slowly I lost everything because of the mental health ..
Today she called me again and sent some persons to separation needs .. I have cleared them ...
I will give divorce as she want but one half of her property is to be transfered to our son's name ...
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